The person who pursues homosexuality or the person who despises them for it?  Or perhaps a better question:  Is the sin of the despiser justified because of the sin of the despised?  Here’s another:  We know that Jesus said we should love our enemies (Matt. 5:44).  Can love exist without some form of expression, or is disregarding someone as powerful as hatred? 
I need a little time for introspection and soul-searching.  Some of these divisions are becoming indistinguishable.  Do I hate, or do I ignore?  Is that the same thing? I find it easier to use my awareness of moral degradation as a venue to contrast my own spiritual piety with their depravity.  Woe is me.  In Jonathan Edward’s famous resolutions, he profoundly stated:

“Resolved, to act, in all respects, both speaking and doing, as if nobody had been so vile as I, and as if I had committed the same sins, or had the same infirmities or failings as others; and that I will let the knowledge of their failings promote nothing but shame in myself, and prove only an occasion of my confessing my own sins and misery to God.”
Sin elevates no one.  It exalts no one but the inexhaustible merits of our Lord and savior Jesus Christ.  He is great and greatly to be praised for He has defeated sin and death.  We sin.  Understand that the knowledge you possess of others lawlessness does not reposition you any closer to the glory of God’s throne.  All sin should humble us.  As Edwards states, the sin in others should lead to humility in us.  If we would respond in like manner, love and compassion would flow much easier. 
Our Lord never wasted words.  When he commanded us to: “First take the log out of your eye and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.”  (Matt. 7:5).  That seems quite irrational when it is wholly evident to me that I have but saw dust in my eye while my brother carries the proverbial weight of a two by four upon his soul.  The reason I see specks and logs is because I measure my iniquity on the false balance of horizontal humanity.  Woe is me. 

            Love like Christ.  He who was without any specs came not to condemn men, but to bring them to repentance.   How shall we do the same when we condemn them though we, having been under condemnation, received grace?   In this, we must be perfect just as our heavenly father is perfect.  (Matt 5:48)